By:
Chantelle Rideout
"Don't
judge a book by its cover." That is a quote that people say all the time,
but obviously don't think about the meaning. Teens are always judging and being
judged by the way they look. They try so hard to change the way they look,
because that's what teen image says they need to do. Teen image is a superficial
image of the perfect teen that teens will go to extremes to achieve.
The
reason we have teen image is because of the media. The media has created an
image of the perfect teen. It has done so by using pop stars, airbrushed models,
and Barbie dolls. Teens, mostly girls, see those images and are lured into the
trap of thinking that they need to look like that. The media seems to be saying
that if you don't have shiny hair, perfect skin, a tiny waist, and a big bra
size you have to change something about yourself. You are not good enough. Teens
tend to think that they need to change or they won't be accepted, or wanted by
the opposite sex. Teens are constantly seeing gorgeous images on television,
movies, and in magazines that they feel they need to look like. The media sends
these messages, but do they realize how unrealistic they really are? Even the
ugliest girl in the movies can turn beautiful at the end. Real life is not like
that. Nobody is perfect; therefore nobody can achieve the perfect "teen
image."
The
things teens will do to achieve teen image can be very extreme. Teen girls may
get breast implants or other plastic surgeries, while teen boys may turn to
steroids. A magazine never has a model that is not skinny, or a male who is not
well built. Many teens turn to eating disorders. A lot of the time they feel
that because of their size they are not good enough. They feel that other people
are better than them because they have nicer bodies. They may turn to eating
disorders, such as anorexia or bulimia. They can hurt themselves very badly, and
even kill themselves by doing this. Not everyone goes to a dangerous extreme for
teen image, but it's safe to say that everyone has changed something about
themselves to fit the teen image or just to fit in.
Fitting
in, that's what it's all about. The media practically screams, "This is
what you should look like!" In junior high and high school, fitting in is
all teens’ want. They just want to look like the teen image, like that perfect
model or star. Teens think that if they achieve this unreachable goal, they will
be accepted.
Not
only that, girls and guys compare each other to the image of the perfect teen.
Everyone cares so much about what others think of them, and the way they look.
Nobody seems to care about who you are, what you like, what you believe, or your
personality at all! Beauty is supposed to come from the inside, but everyone
proves that saying wrong. According to the way our superficial culture acts,
beauty is all about what's on the outside!
In
conclusion, teens are putting way too much time, energy, and money into their
appearances. The media is influencing teens into thinking they need to be carbon
copies of their stick-thin, perfect models. Teens waste their life trying to
achieve this stereotypical image that is impossible to reach. They try and
change so much about the way they look. They don't realize that they are
spending their life trying to change who they are, and they are never going to
have a chance to be themselves.